GLA ALA Magazine – Leadership Exchange
See our article below,”Three Persuasion Secrets Revealed: Will You? Yes, and; Because” published in Leadership Exchange by GLA ALA of Greater Los Angeles. Download PDF here
N.I.S.E. GUYS FINISH FIRST
Contrary to professional belief, you don’t have to be ruthless to be successful. Evidence and examples from the management and leadership worlds prove, again and again, that people who can connect and collaborate develop loyal and fruitful relationships with their colleagues and clients. I walk into dozens of firms and organizations stripped of empathy and…
Bosses Behaving Badly
Is it the pressure? The power? The profit-motive? One thing’s for sure — supervisors who mistreat their subordinates are not focused on the people. When has it become acceptable for bosses to behave so badly? A position of power over the decisions and direction in an organization is a responsibility and a reward that must…
Talk-Sick Work Environments Harm Business Health: How to Detox Your Workplace
Gossiping. Lashing out. Undermining. Triangulating. Shooting down. Judging. Criticizing. Chastising. Trivializing. Harassing. Misleading. Deceiving. Lying. Shaming. Blaming. Complaining. Stonewalling. Sadly, the number of ways we create a talk-sick (read: toxic) environment at work is countless. It’s common knowledge these days that putting toxins into our bodies (cigarettes, drugs, refined sugar, alcohol, saturated fats, pesticides, mold,…
Ask for the Feedback that Fuels Your Work
It’s incredible how important it is for us to feel like we’re heard, seen, acknowledged and appreciated. As much as we might try to tell ourselves and others that we’re above the need for credit and recognition–that doing a great job is fulfillment enough–we secretly yearn for a sincere thank you, an authentic acknowledgement, and…
LOL: Let Others Lead
My friend and Everest Summiter/Keynote Speaker, Gary Guller, says that to be great you have to make those around you great. One of the surest ways to accomplish this is by letting others – in your personal and professional spheres – lead, and by following their lead with trust and respect. Several notable and desirable…
From Awareness to Action: 3 Points of Personal Change
I’ve had some deep and difficult coaching conversations recently. Many have centered on the challenge of personal change. Three points in the change process bring completely different moods/emotions/energies and require varying skills and tools to experience and navigate. Point 1: Unconscious and Unaware This might be termed ignorance, bliss, oblivion, innocence or naiveté. Others tell…
Increase Your Influence…Instantly!
Disclaimer: When I teach persuasion, the inevitable manipulation question is brought up: Isn’t it manipulative to influence the behavior or emotions of others? Well, if it’s for one’s own selfish purposes, then yes. If the intention is to create a benefit or greater good, then no. If your intention is to influence others in order to…
Success Secret: Detached Involvement
One of the most powerful personal and professional tools for successful living is the consistent practice of detached involvement. Focusing on the process, and not on the outcome, is difficult for many of us. That’s because we tend to be future-focused rather than presently involved. Whatever it is we’re trying to accomplish and achieve, we’re…
From Success to Significance
I’d like to offer a paradigm shift for the way we conduct ourselves professionally. Rather than thinking about how to make ourselves and our teams the most successful in the business, let’s go for how to make a positive impact for our clients, colleagues and team culture. Focusing on significance, rather than success, oftentimes takes…